Tuesday, July 30, 2013

UBC day 30 - A thought to end the day.



So many of us are what other's want us to be. Our thought's are someone else's opinion. Opinions on how we should lead our lives. 

Don't let anyone break into your soul. Because these are the ones who will do anything to see you fail and fall, so never give them that satisfaction. They actually do very little for you, but end up having an enormous control over your life. Who are those people? Did you find them? 

Do you realise who are the ones who actually care about you? You'll find them close by. But they are the ones we have ignored forever. They are the ones who have still been around. While we have been busy looking elsewhere. While we have been busy handing over the reins of our lives to someone else. 

How different would our lives be if we stopped allowing other people to dictate how our lives should be, stop allowing them to poison our day with their thought's and opinions.

Let that day be today. Let us stand strong in our journey of the day without attachment to validation of others.

Stop letting people who do so little for you control so much of your mind, feelings and emotions. 




13 comments:

  1. That's so very thought provoking and so very true. We let our lives be ruled by other people's rules. We must stop caring about what others think of us. It is important to let these unimportant people go from our lives.

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  2. Nice post. We are fascinated and charmed by the people who dont have any concern for us. ''Dur ke dhol suhane '

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  3. Seems to me, people would be so much happier over all!! Great post!

    Kathy
    http://gigglingtruckerswife.blogspot.com

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  4. oh ya that is such a problem... everytime i decide not to but some how some one creeps in... but not for a long time and then I shake it off.. but those few days of letting myself be affected by some stupid person is uuuuurrrrgghhhhhhh

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  5. My everyday thought, my everyday issue. In fact as of now also. But we need to get out of it for our ownselves. These things kill us.

    Richa

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  6. Princess, blessed is your family to have you in their life..In the past one month you have healed my soul in ways by being you..Thank you for this post..Big Bear Hug to you :)

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    1. *hugs back* thank YOU... for ur child like chirpiness and bubbling enthusiasm....that was like a breath of fresh air to me too!

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  7. Nice, inspiring quote. Well presented.

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  8. Ha! Well, I have not :) Else I would neither be a bachelor nor a happily unemployed person for nearly a decade now despite having had a flourishing middle-management career when I quit :)

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    1. Wonderful! takes a lot not to hand over our life/thoughts/ opinions to someone else.....and it also takes a lot of courage to quit a flourishing career..... hats off to you for doing what u believe in and not succumbing to the opinion of others.

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  9. dear friend, the toughest thing is not get influenced by the ones who criticize you for being yourself and yes the moment one learns to keep his remote control in his hand .. life becomes easier .. all negative emotions flow away .. whenever I am caught with such people .. I jsut murmur to myself -Take Lite you mortal being why giving your control to someone else :)

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At times our own light goes out and is rekindled by a spark from another person..deep gratitude for those who have lighted the flame within me!! your comments will be appreciated..

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