Saturday, April 18, 2026

P for Pride and Ego

#AtoZChallenge 2026 letter P



The Bhagavad Gita is a treasure trove of knowledge - all that you need to be is an inquisitive student, because only when the student is ready, the master appears! Join me this month in the 'April A to Z challenge,' as I take you through selected verses of this monumental scripture, and try to decipher the amazing lessons it has in store for us.         


         

Translation

Those who are blinded by ego (ahankara), power (balam), pride (darpam), desire (kamam) and anger (krodham), fail to realise that Krishna exists in their bodies as well as that of others.

Story of Daksh Prajapati

Once upon a time, all the prajapatis or leaders performed a great sacrifice. It was well attended by all the great sages, philosophers, demigods and fire-gods and their followers.

Dakṣha was the leader of the Prajāpatis. When he entered that assembly, all the fire-gods and other participants in that great assembly, with the exceptions of Lord Brahma and Lord Shiva, stood up in respect for Dakṣha. Since Lord Brahma was his father, Daksha offered respects to him and sat down.

Daksha’s pride is hurt.

Daksha was quite offended to see Lord Shiva sitting and not showing him any respect. His pride told him that he was leader of all leaders, the son of Lord Brahma, and deserved to be respected. His ego told him that since Lord Shiva was married to his daughter Sati, he was expected to bow to Daksha as the father-in-law is equal to a guru.

But he had forgotten that despite being his son-in-law, Lord Shiva was much higher in position.

Full of ego and pride, Daksha insulted Lord Shiva, using vile words. He forbade Shiva from receiving any share in the oblations of sacrifice. Shiva, being his calm self, simply walked away.

Sati faces humiliation.

Some time later, Sati came to know of a ‘vajapeya yagna’ being held at her father’s house. Not knowing about her husband’s insult by her father, she insisted on going though they had not been invited. When Shiva did not accompany her, she marched off alone.

Once at her father’s palace, she not only felt unwelcome by him but also realised that he had not kept a share of the oblations of sacrifice for her husband. This insult was too much for her to bear. She was too embarrassed to go back to her husband, and after cursing her father, jumped into the sacrificial fire giving up her life.

Lord Shiva unleashes Veerabhadra.

Lord Shiva had not minded his own humiliation, but when he came to know that his dear wife, Sati had also not been spared, he could bear it no more. He unleashed his own fearful form – Veerabhadra, on Daksha. Daksha finally paid for his mistake, when Veerabhadra severed off his head and threw it into the sacrificial fire. Later, at the prayers of all gods, Lord Shiva gave Dakska the head of a goat.

Destruction of pride and ego.

The head is considered a symbol of pride and ego. The beheading of Daksha symbolises the destruction of pride and ego. A goat symbolises humility and submission.

This story tells us that no matter how powerful one is, they must surrender their pride and ego at the feet of the Lord to achieve true wisdom.

 




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